I do think the girly grip is a more advanced feature, isn't it?
Currently I am looking for control, which makes common sense to me to "steer" the club back and through for technical aspects.
If I apply a girly grip I loose all feeling about the clubface and where it is. So I think you should have some faith and trust already about your swinging before lightening the grip, right?
I like to jump into wally's post, I would loose the connection of my hands as well at the moment. From my personal view a apply a mid-firm grip for the time being until I have faith enough to make the same movement with a light grip
cheers
Frank
Homer says the hands are clamps, but the wrists remain oily and free. Go ahead and GRIP that thing firm, but not so firm that you create a lot of tension in your forearms.
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